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Friday, January 21, 2011

Temporally Tempered




I woke up but a moment ago, and now the sun has set again
I can tell you what the time is, but I can never tell you when
I'm struggling in this temporal madness that I constantly find myself in
Left unwittingly bewitched by this foolishness, and barely in it to win


Lit before me is the stark, eerie image of what I know will come to be
Bright lights and satisfaction elude me in my half-hearted fantasy
I'm at sea, I'm drifting away, there's not a soul that can save me now
I'd come running back, seeking His mercy, if fate would but allow


My eyes seek out the shadows of life, partially hidden from view
Even daylight couldn't chase away the darkness, and this the shadows knew
Running like blood flows through the veins of the son of Adam, unbeknownst to men
If the moon but knew the evil that it canvassed, perhaps it would never rise again


Reminded of a day when the written pages of every person shall be laid wide open
You can see it all before you now, the misgivings, and all you've ever put hope in
When the heaven shall be stripped off and taken away from its previous place
The poor among them elevated in status, while the rich have fallen from grace


When the hell fire shall be set ablaze, and paradise finally brought near
The taste left in your mouth that of almost palpable fear
For one last chance to be cast into the past many will surely grieve
Because this Hour, and this Day, is beyond anything you could conceive


Thrown back into the region of reality, I watch the hands of the clock make its rounds
Tick, tock, tick, tock. Continuity mocked by its sounds
My eyes finally close, my mind put to rest, while I'm left blissfully unaware
Temporarily, temporally, 'tis all but one affair

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

DaruSalaam



I stood there hoping for mercy, when to my soul I have lied
the cries have become subdued, as the countless tears have dried
Living in delirium, in a world that wasn't made for me
I thought it to be real, when there was better saved for me

May we reach daruSalaam by His, and only His Decree
I would die for the cause if I knew only to what degree
for a secret, which Allah has made them understand
and made them to pursue, and fully comprehend
Those are the Ulul Albaab, people of comprehension
that freed themselves from ignorance and it's constant oppression

By the light of the fire, they read the revelation
May we follow their footsteps, truly the best of creation
We stand in dire need of rescuing from our own souls
as we thoughtlessly jumped into various holes
caught at cross roads, like deers caught in the headlight
we were brought down, hardly putting up a fight

So we hope for a light that starts in our hearts to show us the way
we hope for emaan that does not deplete, and blessings that do not go away

Monday, January 3, 2011

The Refuters have been Refuted. This article simply wins..

Asalaamu 'alaykum warahmatullaahi wabarakaatuh

I'm happy to have come across this article written by Shaykh Abdul Muhsin al Abbad alhamdulillah! It basically drives home exactly the message I have been trying to put across in many of my posts here, and a message I feel really strongly about (incase that's not already obvious). I feel this is a really huge problem in the Salafi community and the sheykh, may Allah ta'aala reward him, outlines the problem and provided the exact solution for it. May Allah preserve our scholars, they truly are filled with so much wisdom and see past what many of us cannot. It's no wonder they are said to be the inheritors of the prophets. Please read the following article carefully. Hopefully we can all agree afterwards that you don't have to always be refuting people to identify as a Salafi. You're actually allowed minding your own business after all. Enjoy!

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The Solution to the Current Fitnah of (Tajreeh) Defaming People and (Hajr) Ostracizing Them That is Coming From Some of the People of Ahl-us-Sunnah of Our Time
By: Sheykh Abdul Muhsin Al Abbad




(all footnotes are at the bottom of the article)

Some of the people of Ahl-us-Sunnah of our time have busied themselves with defaming each other (Tajreeh or as is more commonly referred to in the west, Jarh wa Ta’deel) and warning against one another (Tahdheer). As a result, division, conflict and cutting off of relations has occurred between them, despite the fact that they should be – no it is a must for them to be - loving, merciful and compassionate with one another; unified against the people of bid’ah who oppose Ahl-us-Sunnah wal-Jamaa’ah. There are two reasons for this problem:

1. There are some from amongst the people of Ahl-us-Sunnah who are preoccupied with searching for and following the mistakes of others, either in their audio tapes or in their books and writings. Then they warn against anyone who they found to have certain mistakes. Some of the mistakes that they defame a person for and warn against him for include:

• Giving speeches or lessons for a da’wah organization, or participating in conferences (organized by that da’wah organization). Despite the fact that both Shaykh Abd-ul- ‘Azeez ibn Baaz and Shaykh Muhammad ibn ‘Uthaimeen gave lectures by telephone to these organizations. Likewise, the organization may be criticized for doing something that they obtained permission to do in a fatwa given by both of those well respected scholars. However, it is more appropriate to blame a person for his own opinion than to blame him for someone else’s. Especially if it was an opinion given in a fatwa by one of the major scholars. Furthermore, some of the Companions of the Prophet (ρ) said after what happened the day of the Treaty of Al-Hudaybiyyah: “O people! Blame your personal opinions in your religion!” (1)

• Also from those who have been defamed are those who are of great benefit (to the Muslims) through their lectures, or their books, or their sermons. However, he has been warned against because his opinion about someone or some da’wah organization is unknown (2). Even some of the religious people in a few Arab countries have been defamed and warned against, whose tremendous efforts in teaching the Sunnah, and spreading it, and calling to it, benefit everyone. And there can be no doubt that warning against people like them simply cuts off the path between the students of knowledge and those (scholars) who they might benefit from their knowledge and their good character.

2. There are some from amongst the people of Ahl-us-Sunnah who, if they see a mistake from anybody from Ahl-us-Sunnah, they write a refutation against him. Then the one who was refuted writes a refutation of the refutation. Then both of them busy themselves reading everything that the other has written recently or in the past, and listening to all of the audio tapes of the other hoping to find a mistake and catch him in it. Some of these mistakes may have simply been a slip of the tongue, the likes of which he or someone else could (easily) have made. Then each one of them strives to get as many supporters as he can to also stand against the other. Then each group of supporters raises their voices with the statements of anyone who supports them and criticizes the other party.

They also try to force everyone they meet to ‘take a position against’ those who do not support him. And if he does not (take a position against the other) then he is said to be a person of bid’ah based solely on the fact that they have pronounced the other (person or) group as people of bid’ah. Then they ostracize (the one who did not take ‘the proper position’). (3) The actions of two groups such as these are some of the most serious causes of the fitnah and one of the most serious reasons why it has spread so far and wide.

The matter becomes even worse when each of the two parties spread their criticisms of the other party on the Internet! At that point, the youth of Ahl-us-Sunnah from various countries and even various continents, busy themselves keeping up to date with what has been published on the website from qeela wa qaala (talking about what this one said and what that one said) which is an activity that does not bring about any good, and only brings about harm and disunity. (4) In fact, these activities cause them to resemble those who watch the news bulletins in order to find out what is the best news to publish. They also resemble sports enthusiasts who cheer for one team or another, and get into arguments and quarrels as a result!

The way to end this fitnah is as follows:

Firstly: Regarding (the problems) related to (Tajreeh) defaming one another and (Tahdheer) warning against one another, the following points should be observed:

1. Anyone who has busied himself with defaming the scholars and the students of knowledge and warning against them should fear Allah. And instead, he should busy himself with looking for his own faults so that he might get rid of them instead of busying himself with the faults of others. And he should endeavor to keep his good deeds from being given to those he has distressed by defaming them and maligning their character. After all, he will be in more need of his good deeds than anyone else on the Day when neither wealth nor sons will avail, except him who brings to Allah a clean heart. (5)

2. Instead of busying himself with defaming others and warning against them, he should busy himself striving hard to obtaining beneficial knowledge that will benefit him as well as others. One of the best things that a person can do –if he is able – is to busy himself with knowledge; learning it, and teaching it, and calling to it, and writing about it, so that he might be from the people who build things up. And he should not busy himself with defaming the scholars and the students of knowledge from Ahl-us- Sunnah, cutting off the pathway to benefiting from them, and thereby becoming one of the people who tear things down! The person who busies himself with defaming others in this way does not leave behind any beneficial knowledge when he dies. And when he dies, the people do not lose a knowledgeable person that was of benefit to them, rather as a result of his death they simply become safe from his evil!

3. The students from Ahl-us-Sunnah in every place should turn themselves away (from this fitnah) and busy themselves with knowledge; reading beneficial books, and listening to the audio tapes of the scholars of Ahl-us-Sunnah, like Shaykh ibn Baaz and Shaykh ibn ‘Uthaymeen, instead of busying themselves calling such and such person or such and such person in order to ask: “What is your opinion about such and such person or such and such person.” or “What is your opinion about the statement of such and such person or such and such person.”

4. When the students of knowledge want to ask about the condition of other (students of knowledge or scholars), then they should refer their question to the headquarters of The Permanent Committee for Islamic Research and Fataawa in Riyadh in order to ask about them. After all, are these the people who are returned to for fataawa and knowledge or not?

And whoever has any information about the condition of specific people, then it is possible for him to write a letter to the headquarters of The Permanent Committee for Islamic Research and Fataawa, explaining to them what he knows about them so that they might look into it. That way, if there is any (Tajreeh) or (Tahdheer) warning against someone, then it comes from those who are returned to and depended upon for fataawa, and from those who knowledge is taken from. And there can be no doubt that the proper place to turn to for fataawa in these matters is the same place that should be returned to in order to find out from whom fataawa should be sought. And from whom should we seek knowledge? Furthermore, no one should try to establish himself as the one who is returned to for these important matters! Because, from the good Islam of a person is his leaving off that which does not concern him! (6)

Secondly: Regarding (the problems) related to the writing of refutations against those who have made a mistake, the following points should be observed:

1. A refutation should only be made for clear mistakes and then the refutation should be made utilizing kindness and gentleness, and with a strong desire for the person to be free of the mistake. The refutations made by Shaykh ibn Baaz (rahimahullaah) should be referred to in order to learn the proper way of making a refutation.

2. However, if the mistake is not a clear one, or it is a mistake that the one making the refutation may have fallen into himself, then it is best to refer the matter to the headquarters of The Permanent Committee for Islamic Research and Fataawa for decision. However, if the mistake was a clear one, then it is upon the one who has been refuted to leave the mistake because returning to the haqq (truth) is better than continuing upon falsehood.

3. If someone has already made a refutation on somebody else, then he has already done what was obligatory for him to do, and he should not busy himself following up on the one he has refuted. Instead, he should busy himself with (seeking) knowledge that will be of great benefit to himself as well as others. That was the way of Shaykh ibn Baaz.

4. It is not permissible to test any student of knowledge, or any one else for that matter, by questioning him about his (mawqif) position on such and such person who has been refuted, or about his (mawqif) position on the person who made the refutation. And if he agrees (with your opinion) then he is safe, but if he disagrees then he is called a person of bid’ah and then ostracized. Likewise, it is not for anyone to attribute this kind of chaos and confusion (in the method of) of defaming people and ostracizing them to the people of Ahl-us-Sunnah. Nor should anyone who does not follow this path of chaos be described as being one who is not firm on the Salafy Manhaj.

The type of (hajr) or ostracization that is beneficial in the opinion of Ahl-us-Sunnah is the kind that really benefits the one who is ostracized. Such as a father (punishing) his son by not speaking to him, or a teacher (punishing) his student. Likewise, the (hajr) should come from someone who has a position of status and authority because this type of hajr is beneficial for the one who is being ostracized. However, if the hajr is practiced by some students of knowledge against others – especially if it was being done over something that is not permissible to ostracize someone over – then this doesn’t benefit the one being ostracized at all. Instead, it simply brings about quarrels and the cutting off of relations.

Shaykh-ul-Islam ibn Taymiyyah said, while mentioning Yazeed ibn Mu’aawiyah: “The correct position (regarding Yazeed ibn Mu’aawiyah) is the position of the scholars. He is not singled out for any special kind of love, nor should he be cursed. Likewise, if he was a faasiq (sinner) or dhaalim (an oppressor), then Allah forgives sinners and oppressors, especially if they have done many great deeds of goodness. Imam Al-Bukhaari narrated a hadeeth in his Saheeh on the authority of Ibn ‘Umar who said that the Prophet said:

“The first army to invade Constantinople will be forgiven their sins.” (7)

And the first army to invade Constantinople was led by Yazeed ibn Mu’aawiyah! And Abu Ayyoob Al-Ansaari was present also...Therefore it is obligatory to speak as little as possible about that and to avoid mentioning Yazeed ibn Mu’aawiyah, and to avoid testing the Muslims about (their opinion) of him because this is a bid’ah that contradicts (the way of) Ahl-us-Sunnah wal Jamaa’ah!” (8)

Shaykh-ul-Islam ibn Taymiyyah also said: “Also (to be avoided) is splitting up the Ummah and testing people with criteria that Allah and His Messenger have not commanded us to test people with.” (9)

Shaykh-ul-Islam ibn Taymiyyah also said: “It is not for anyone to raise some person up, and call the Ummah to follow his path, treating all of those who follow him as allies, and all of those who do not as enemies, if that person is other than the Prophet. Likewise, it is not for anyone to raise up for (the Ummah) some opinion or quote from the words of some person, and treat all those who agree with it as allies, and all of those who do not agree with it as enemies, if those words are not from the speech of Allah, or from the speech of His Messenger, or from those matters that the entire Ummah has agreed upon. Rather, this is from the behavior of the people of bid’ah who put up some person or some opinion and divide the Ummah with it. They ally themselves to those who agree, while treating as enemies all who do not.” (10)

Shaykh-ul-Islam ibn Taymiyyah also said: “If a professor or a teacher orders that someone be ostracized, or discredited, or expelled etc. then this matter must be investigated. If in fact (the student) committed a sin in the eyes of the law, then he should be punished according to the seriousness of the sin he committed and no more. If however he did not commit a sin in the eyes of the law, then it is not permissible to punish him at all, simply because of the personal objectives of the teacher or anyone else for that matter. Likewise, teachers should not do anything that will divide the people up into groups and put enmity and hatred between them. Rather they should be as brothers cooperating with each other in righteousness and taqwaa. Allah the Most High says:

Help you one another in righteousness and piety, but do not help each other in
sin and transgression.) [Surah Al-Maidah: 2].” (11)

Al-Haafidh ibn Rajab said in his explanation of the hadeeth: “From the good Islam of a person is his leaving off that which does not concern him.”: “This hadeeth is a very important principle of good behavior. Al-Imam Abu ‘Amr ibn Salaah reported that Abu Muhammad ibn Abee Zaid – the foremost scholar of Maaliki fiqh of his time – said: ‘The sum of good manners and their importance can be derived from four hadeeth:

“Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak what is good or keep quiet.”(12)

“From the good Islam of a person is his leaving off that which does not concern him.”(13)

And the advice of the Prophet (ρ) for someone - which he summarized in just a few words, saying:
 “Don’t get angry.” (14)

“The believer loves for his brother what he loves for himself.” (15, 16)

I say: “The students of knowledge are in great need of disciplining themselves with these manners which will bring goodness and benefit to them, as well as others. (They also need to) stay far away from harshness and rudeness, the only result of which is quarreling, disunity, turning away of the hearts, and breaking up into groups.”

5. It is upon every sincere student of knowledge to stop following on the Internet what this group is saying about that one, and what that group is saying about this one. Instead they should use the Internet to look at websites such as the website of Shaykh Abd-ul-‘Azeez ibn Baaz in order to read his essays and fataawa that have now reached up to twenty one volumes. (They should also use the Internet to read) the fataawa written by The Permanent Committee for Islamic Research and Fataawa which have now reached up to twenty volumes. Likewise, (they should also use the Internet to look at) the website of Shaykh Muhammad ibn ‘Uthaimeen (and read his many books and fataawa,)

And in conclusion, I advise the students of knowledge to: thank Allah the Mighty and the Majestic for the success that he gave them when He made them from amongst His students. And to make sure that they have Ikhlaas (sincerity) in seeking knowledge and that they work as hard as they can to obtain it. (I also advise the students of knowledge) not to waste their time and to spend it seeking knowledge, because knowledge cannot be obtained by simply wishing and lingering about while being lazy and indifferent.
Yahya ibn Abee Katheer said, in a saying narrated by Imam Muslim in his Saheeh, while narrating ahadeeth about the times for prayer: “Knowledge cannot be obtained while relaxing.”

There are many texts in the Book of Allah (i.e. the Qur'aan) and in the Sunnah of His Prophet (ρ) that prove the elevated status of knowledge and the superiority of the scholars. Allah the Most High says:

(Allah bears witness that none has the right to be worshipped but He, and the angels, and those having knowledge (also bear witness).) [Surah Al-Imran: 18].

He also says:
 (Say: “Are those who know equal to those who know not?”) [Surah Az-Zumar: 9].

He also says:
(Allah will raise in degree those of you who believe, and those who have been granted knowledge...) [Surah Al-Mujaadilah: 11].

He also says:
(Say: “My Lord! Increase me in knowledge.”) [Surah Ta-Ha: 114].

Some of the hadeeth (that prove the elevated status of knowledge and the superiority of the scholars) include:

“Whoever Allah wants good for, then he gives him understanding in religion.” (17)

This hadeeth proves that one of the signs that Allah the Most High wants good for His servant is that He gives him understanding in religion. That is because if he understands his Deen he will be able to worship Allah upon knowledge, and call others (to Islam) with knowledge. He (ρ) also said:

“The best among you (Muslims) are those who learn the Qur'aan and teach it.” (18)

He also said:
“Verily Allah raises up some people with this Book (i.e. the Qur'aan) and He puts down others with it.” (19)

He also said:
“Allah will bless the person (i.e. by brightening him [his face]) who hears something I have said (i.e. a hadeeth) and then he memorizes it and narrates it just as he heard it.” (20)

And this is a hadeeth that was widely narrated by more than twenty Companions. I mentioned all of the narrations of this hadeeth in my book entitled: A Study of the Hadeeth: “Allah will bless the person who hears something I have said (i.e. a hadeeth) and then he memorizes it and narrates it just as he heard it.”

He also said:
“Whoever travels on a path in search of knowledge, then Allah the Mighty and the Majestic will put him on a path from the pathways to Paradise. Verily the angels lower their wings out of pleasure for the one who seeks knowledge. And the inhabitants of the heavens and the earth ask for forgiveness on behalf the scholar, even the fish in the depths of the ocean. Verily the superiority of the scholar over the devout worshipper is like the superiority of the moon over the rest of the stars on a night when it is full. Verily the scholars are the heirs of the Prophets, and the Prophets do not bequeath dinaar or dirham, rather they leave behind (only) knowledge. And he who takes it, takes an abundant portion.” (21)

This hadeeth is hasan ligairihi (it has a good chain of narrators). It was narrated by Abu Daud and others. Refer to Saheeh At-Targheeb wat-Tarheeb (hadeeth # 70) and At-Ta’leeq Alaa Musnad Al-Imam Ahmed in order to find out which scholars narrated this hadeeth in their collections. And Al-Haafidh ibn Rajab explained this hadeeth in a small book containing only the explanation of this hadeeth. And Imam Muslim in his Saheeh (Eng. Trans. Vol. 4, pg. 1417), narrated the first sentence of this hadeeth (i.e. Whoever travels on a path in search of knowledge, then Allah the Mighty and the Majestic will put him on a path from the pathways to Paradise.) (22)

He also said:
“When a person dies, his actions come to an end except for three of them: an ongoing work of charity, beneficial knowledge, and a righteous child who supplicates to Allah for him (the deceased).” (23)

He also said:
َ“Whoever called (people) to right guidance, there would be reward (assured) for him like the rewards of those who adhered to it, without their rewards being diminished in any respect. And he who called (people) to misguidance (error), he shall have upon him the sins of those who adhered to it, without their sins being diminished in any respect.” (24)

I also advise everyone to safeguard and structure their time doing what will be of a good benefit to themselves, because the Messenger of Allah said:

“There are two blessings that many people lose: Good health and free time (i.e. for doing good).” (25)

This is the first hadeeth that Imam Al-Bukhaari narrated in the book of Things That Soften the Heart. And (Al-Imam Haafidh ibn Hajar Al-‘Asqalaani) narrated in Fat-hul-Baaree a statement made by ‘Alee ibn Abee Taalib who said: “The world has departed behind us, and the hereafter has started towards us. Each one of them has offspring. So be from the sons of the hereafter, and do not be from the sons of this worldly life. Verily today (we do) deeds without any taking of account, while tomorrow is the taking of account and (we are unable) to do any deeds.” (26)

I also advise everyone to busy themselves with what concerns them instead of busying themselves with that which does not concern them, because the Prophet said:

“From the good Islam of a person is his leaving off that which does not concern him.” (27)

This hadeeth is narrated by Imam At-Tirmidhi with a good chain of narrators. And it is the twelfth hadeeth from An-Nawawi’s 40 Hadeeth. I also advise everyone to be moderate and to position themselves between the two extremes of excessive (tolerance) and cruelty, and between exaggeration and neglect. The Messenger of Allah said:

“Beware of excessiveness in religion (i.e. extremism or exceeding the bounds). Those who came before you were destroyed by excessiveness in religion.” (28)

This is an authentic hadeeth from those hadeeth that describe what happened during the Farewell Hajj of the Prophet. It was narrated by Imam An-Nasaaee as well as others. Refer to hadeeth #1283 in Silsilat-ul-Ahadeeth As-Saheehah by Shaykh Al-Albaani in order to find out which scholars narrated this hadeeth in their collections.

I also advise everyone to beware of oppressing others because the Prophet said in a hadeeth qudsi (that Allah the Mighty and the Majestic said):

“My worshippers! Verily I have made oppression prohibited for Myself, and I have made it prohibited for you, so do not oppress one another.” (29)

I ask Allah, the Mighty and the Majestic, to give everyone success in obtaining beneficial knowledge, working in accordance with it, and calling to it with knowledge. And I ask Allah to gather everyone together upon the truth and right guidance, and to protect them from all fitnah - that which is apparent from it as well as that which is hidden. Verily He has the Power (to answer this du’a) and the Authority to do so. May peace and blessings be upon His servant and Messenger, our Prophet Muhammad, and upon his family, and upon his Companions, and upon all of those who follow them until the Day of Resurrection. Ameen.

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Footnotes:

1 Here the distinguished author is referring to a hadeeth narrated by Imam Al-Bukhaari upon the authority of Al- A’mash who asked Abu Waa-il:

“Did you take part in the Battle of Siffeen (i.e. the battle that took place between ‘Ali’s followers and Mu’aawiya’s followers at the river of Euphrates in Iraq)? He said: ‘Yes. And I heard Sahl ibn Hunaif say (when he was blamed for lack of zeal for fighting): ‘You had better blame your wrong opinions! I wish that you had seen me on the Day of Abu Jandal (i.e. the Day of the Treaty of Hudaybiyyah. Abu Jandal embraced Islam at the time when the Muslims had concluded a treaty with the pagans of Makkah by virtue of which the Prophet had to return Abu Jandal to them despite his conversion.). If I had had the courage to disobey the Prophet’s orders I would have done so....’ ” [Saheeh Al-Bukhaari (Eng. Trans. Vol. 4, Pg. 271).]

And in another narration upon the authority of Abu Waa-il who said:
َ“We were at Siffeen and Sehl ibn Hunaif got up and said: ‘O people! Blame yourselves! We were vwith the Prophet on the Day of Hudaybiyyah, and if we had been called we would have fought. ‘Umar ibn Al-Khattaab came and said: ‘O Messenger of Allah! Are we not upon the truth and they upon falsehood?’ The Messenger of Allah said: ‘Yes.’ ‘Umar said: ‘Are not those who are killed from amongst us in Paradise and theirs in Hell?’ He (the Messenger of Allah said: ‘Yes.’ ‘Umar said: ‘Then why should we accept hard terms in matters concerning our religion? Shall we go back (to Medina) before Allah judges between us and them?’ The Messenger of Allah said: ‘O Ibn Al-Khataab! I am the Messenger of Allah and Allah will never neglect or destroy me!’ Then ‘Umar went to Abu Bakr and told him what the Prophet had said. On that Abu Bakr said (to ‘Umar): ‘He is the Messenger of Allah and Allah will never neglect or destroy him!’ Then Surah Al-Fath (i.e. Victory) was revealed and the Messenger of Allah recited it all the way to the end in front of ‘Umar. On that ‘Umar asked: ‘O Messenger of Allah! Was it (i.e. the Treaty of Hudaybiyyah) a victory?’ The Messenger of Allah said: ‘Yes.’ ” [Saheeh Al-Bukhaari (Eng. Trans. Vol. 4, Pg. 271-272).]

It should be noted that Al-Haafidh ibn Hajar Al-‘Asqalaani explained that Sahl ibn Hunaif said: ‘You had better blame your wrong opinions!’ to those present at Siffeen when it became apparent that the Companions were reluctant to agree to settle their dispute through arbitration. So he reminded them of what took place on the Day of Hudaybiyyah and how most of the people did not want the peace treaty even though, in the end it turned out to be something very good, and it became clear that the opinion of the Prophet was correct. [Fat-hul-Baaree (Vol. 7, 325).]

2 This is frighteningly similar to those who go around saying ‘So and so is unclear’ because he has not ‘clarified his position’ on such and such person or such and such issue.

3 This is frighteningly similar to those who confront others with the question ‘what is your position (mawqif) on so and so?’ Al-Hamdu lillaah, the shaykh will explain the error of this type of behavior in the coming pages in shaa Allahu ta’aala.

4 And Allah disapproves for you (qeela wa qaala) talking about what was said and what somebody said. Refer once again to the hadeeth on page 10 please.

5 Refer to Surah Ash-Shu’ara: 88-89.

6 Here the distinguished author is referring to a hadeeth narrated upon the authority of Abu Hurairah who said that the Messenger of Allah said:

“From the good Islam of a person is his leaving off that which does not concern him.”
[Narrated by Imam At-Tirmidhi and authenticated by Shaykh Al-Albaani in Saheeh Sunan At-Tirmidhi (Vol. 2, page 530-531, # 2317 & 2318).]

7 I was unable to find any hadeeth with this wording , however, I did find a hadeeth narrated upon the authority of Umm Haraam who said that she heard the Prophet say:

“Paradise will be granted to the first army from my nation to fight a naval battle.” Umm Haraam asked: “O Messenger of Allah! Will I be amongst them?” He replied: “You will be amongst them.” The Prophet said:

“The first army from my nation to invade Caesar’s city (i.e. Contantinople) will be forgiven their sins.” I asked: “Will I be one of them O Messenger of Allah?” He said: “No.” [Saheeh Al-Bukhaari (Eng. Trans. Vol. 4, Pg.109)].

8 Majmoo’ Fataawa (Vol. 3, page 413-414).
9 Majmoo’ Fataawa (Vol. 3, page 415).
10 Majmoo’ Fataawa (Vol. 20, page 164).
11 Majmoo’ Fataawa (Vol. 28, page 15-16).
12 Saheeh Al-Bukhaari (Eng. Trans. Vol. 8, pg. 321, # 482). Saheeh Muslim, (Eng. Trans. Vol. 1, pg. 32, # 75).
13 Narrated by Imam At-Tirmidhi and authenticated by Shaykh Al-Albaani in Saheeh Sunan At-Tirmidhi (Vol. 2, page 530-531, # 2317 & 2318).
14 Saheeh Al-Bukhaari (Eng. Trans. Vol. , pg. ). The hadeeth in its entirety was narrated by Abu Hurairah who said:

“A man said to the Prophet: ‘Advise me.’ He said: ‘Don’t get angry.’ Then he repeated it several times.”

15 Saheeh Al-Bukhaari (Eng. Trans. Vol. 1, pg. 19). Saheeh Muslim, (Eng. Trans. Vol. 1, pg. 31).
16 Jaami’-ul-‘Uloomi wal-Hikam (Vol. 1, pg. 288).
17 Saheeh Al-Bukhaari (Eng. Trans. Vol. 1, pg. 61). Saheeh Muslim, (Eng. Trans. Vol. 2, pg. 495-496).
18 Saheeh Al-Bukhaari (Eng. Trans. Vol. 6, pg. 501-502).
19 Saheeh Muslim, (Eng. Trans. Vol. 2, pg. 389). The hadeeth in its entirety is narrated by ‘Aamir ibn Waathilah and it reads:

“Naafi’ ibn ‘Abd-ul-Haarith met ‘Umar (ibn-ul-Khattaab) in ‘Usfaan (a place that is approximately 80 kilometers north of Makkah on the road to Medina). ‘Umar had put him in charge of the people of Makkah so (‘Umar) said to him: ‘Who have you left in charge of the people of the valley (i.e. Makkah)?’ He (Naafi’) said: ‘I left Ibn Abza in charge of them.’ (‘Umar) said: ‘Who is Ibn Abza?’ (Naafi’) said: ‘One of our freed slaves.’ (‘Umar) said: ‘You left a freed slave in charge of them?’ (Naafi’) said: ‘He is well versed in the Qur'aan and a scholar of inheritance law.’  (‘Umar) said: ‘Verily your Prophet said: ‘Verily Allah raises up some people with this Book (i.e. the Quran) and He lowers others with it.’”

20 Narrated by Imam Ahmed, At-Tirmidhi, Abu Daud (Eng. Trans. Vol. 3, pg. 1038), and Ibn Maajah and authenticated by Shaykh Al-Albaani in Saheeh Sunan At-Tirmidhi (Vol. 3, page 61, # 2658).

21 Narrated by Imam Ahmed, Abu Daud (Eng. Trans. Vol. 3, pg. 1034)., At-Tirmidhi, Ibn Maajah, and Ad-Daaramee as well as others and authenticated by Shaykh Al-Albaani in Saheeh Sunan At-Tirmidhi (Vol. 3, page 71, # 2682).

22 Here the author is referring to a hadeeth narrated by Abu Hurairah who said that the Messenger of Allah said:
“Whoever relieves a believer of a hardship from the hardships of this world, then Allah will relieve him of a hardship from the hardships of the Day of Resurrection. And whoever makes something easy for one who is hard pressed, then Allah would make things easy for him in this world and in the hereafter. And whoever conceals the faults of a Muslim, Allah would conceal his faults in this world and in the hereafter. Allah is helping the servant as long as the servant is helping his brother. Whoever travels on a path in search of knowledge, then Allah will make easy for him a path to Paradise. And people do not assemble in a house from the houses of Allah (i.e. a Masjid), and recite the book of Allah, and learn and teach the Qur'aan amongst themselves, except that As-Sakeenah (tranquility) will descend upon them, and mercy would cover them, and the angels would surround them, and Allah makes mention of them in the prescence of those near Him. And whoever was slow or deficient in his actions, then (the nobility of) his ancestry will not make up for (the slowness and deficiency in his actions).”

23 Narrated by Imam At-Tirmidhi and authenticated by Shaykh Al-Albaani in Saheeh Sunan At-Tirmidhi (Vol. 2, page 93, # 1376).
24 Saheeh Muslim, (Eng. Trans. Vol. 4, pg. 1406, # 6470).
25 Saheeh Al-Bukhaari (Eng. Trans. Vol. 8, pg. 282).
26 Fat-hul-Baaree (Vol. 11, page 235).
27 Narrated by Imam At-Tirmidhi as well as others and authenticated by Shaykh Al-Albaani in Saheeh Sunan At- Tirmidhi (Vol. 2, page 530-531, # 2317 & 2318).
28 Narrated by Imam Ahmed, An-Nasaai, and Ibn Maajah and authenticated by Shaykh Al-Albaani in Saheeh Sunan An-Nasaaee (Vol. 2, page 357, # 3057).
29 Saheeh Muslim, (Eng. Trans. Vol. 4, pg. 1365, # 6246).

Thursday, December 30, 2010

The 7 Conditions of Laa ilaaha illallah



1)       Ilm – knowledge [which negates ignorance]
Evidence:
The evidence for (the condition of) ‘Ilm is His Saying:
So know (O Muhammad) that Laa ilaaha ill Allah (none has the right to be worshipped except Allah) and seek forgiveness for your sins… [Muhammad 47:19]

Also, His Saying:
And those whom they invoke instead of Him have no power of intercession; except those who bear witness to the truth (i.e. believed in the Oneness of Allâh, and obeyed His Orders), and they know (the facts about the Oneness of Allâh). [az-Zukhruf 43:86]
Allaah –Ta’ala- said:
<La ilaha ‘illa Huwa (none has the right to be worshipped but He), and the angels and those having knowledge (also give this witness); (He is always) maintaining His creation in Justice. La ilaha ‘illa Huwa (none has the right to be worshipped but He), the All-Mighty, the All-Wise.>>
[Aali-‘Imran: 18]

And from the Sunnah, the confirmed Hadeeth in as-Saheeh (Muslim), on the authority of Uthman, who said: the Prophet said: Whoever dies knowing that none has the right to be worshipped except Allah (i.e. laa ilaaha ill Allah) will enter paradise. [Muslim]
2)       Yaqeen - Certainty [which negates doubt]

You need to have Ilm al yaqeen (certain knowledge) as opposed to Ilm al-dhann (suspicious knowledge).

Evidence:

The evidence (for the condition of) al-Yaqeen is His Saying:
The believers are only those who have believed in Allah and His Messenger, and afterward doubt not, but they strive with their wealth and their lives for the Cause of Allah. Those! They are the truthful.
[al-Hujuraat 49:15]

From the Sunnah, the confirmed Hadeeth in the Saheeh (i.e. Muslim), on the authority of Abu Hurairah, that the Messenger of Allah said:
I bear witness that nothing deserves to be worshipped except Allah, and that I am the Messenger of Allah.  No one will meet Allah with these two [words of testimony] – while he has no doubt about them, except that he will enter Paradise.  [Muslim]

Also, from Abu Hurairah – from a long Hadeeth – [the saying of the Prophet]:
Whoever you meet on the other side of this wall, who testifies that nothing deserves to be worshipped except Allah, while his heart is certain of this (testimony) – give him the good news of al-Jannah. [Muslim]
It is only those who believe not in Allaah and the Last Day and whose hearts are in doubt that ask your leave (to be exempted from Jihaad). So in their doubts they waver [Tawbah: 45]  -- speaking of the munaafiqs


3)       Qabool  –Acceptance [which negates ar-Radd- Negation]

The evidence (for the condition of) al-Qubool is His Saying:
And similarly, We sent not a warner before you (O Muhammad Sallahu alaihi wa sallam) to any town (people) but the luxurious ones among them said: ‘We found our fathers following a certain way and religion, and we will indeed follow their footsteps.’
(The warner) said: ‘Even if I bring you better guidance than that which you found your fathers following?’ They said: ‘Verily, We disbelieve in that with which you have been sent.’
So We took revenge of them, then see what was the end of those who denied (the worship of Allah alone). [az-Zukhruf 43:23 – 25]
Also, His Saying:
Truly when it was said to them: 'laa ilaaha ill Allah', they puffed themselves up with pride (i.e. they denied it), and they said: Are we going to abandon our gods for the sake of a mad poet? 
[as- Saaffaat 37:35, 36]
And from the Sunnah in the Saheeh on the authority of Abu Musa –RadhiAllaahu anhu- that the Prophet - sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam - said: ‘The like of what Allaah sent me with of guidance and knowledge is like heavy rainfall which poured onto the ground. There was some land which was fertile which absorbed the water and many plants and grass began to grow. There was some land which was arid but it held the water and Allaah made the people benefit by it, so they drank from it, used the water and used it for agriculture. There was some other land which was affected by the water but was flat land where nothing would grow. It did not hold the water nor did it allow plants to grow. That is the example of the one who has understanding of the Deen and benefits from what Allaah sent me with, so he learns it and teaches it and the example of he who cannot raise his head due to it and does not accept the guidance of Allaah with which I have been sent.’

4)       Inqiyaad  - Submission & Obedience [negates disobedience]

Inqiyaad definition: Complete Submission and Compliance with its rights, which are the obligatory duties, doing it purely for Allah, seeking His Pleasure.

The evidence (for this condition of) al-Inqiyaad is His Saying:
And turn in repentance and in obedience with true faith to your Lord, and submit to Him before the torment comes upon you, and then you will not be helped. [az-Zumar 39:54]
Also, His Saying:
And who can be better in religion than one who submits his face (himself) to Allah, and he is a Muhsin (a doer of good), and follows the religion of Ibraaheem, Haneefan (to worship none but Allah alone). And Allah did take Ibraaheem as a Khaleel (an intimate friend). [an-Nisaa’ 4:125]
Also, His Saying:
And whoever submits his face [i.e. himself] to Allah, while he is Muhsin (a doer of good), then he has grasped the most trustworthy hand­hold [i.e. laa ilaaha ill Allah.  [Luqmaan 31:22]
Also, His Saying:
But no, by your Lord, they can have no Faith, until they make you (O Muhammad Sallahu alaihi wa sallam) judge in all disputes between them, and find in themselves no resistance against your decisions, and accept (them) with full submission.  [an-Nisaa’ 4:65]
And from the Sunnah, his saying:
No one of you with have (true) Faith, until his Hawaa (desires,whims etc.) are in accordance with what I have come with.  [al-Baghawee, Sharh as-Sunnah 1/213.  Its chain contains Nu’aim ibn Hammad, who has been declared to be da’eef  (weak)]
5)       As-Sidq - Truthfulness [which negates lying (khadib) and prohibits hypocrisy (nifaaq)]

-and it is to say ‘laa ilaaha illallah’ truthfully from one’s heart and to make one’s speech in accordance to what is in one’s heart.
The evidence (for the condition of) as-Sidq is His Saying:
Alif­Lâm­Mîm.
Do people think that they will be left alone because they say: ‘We believe,’ and will not be tested. 
And We indeed tested those who were before them. And Allâh will certainly make (it) known (the truth of) those who are true, and will certainly make (it) known (the falsehood of) those who are liars, (although Allâh knows all that before putting them to test). [al-‘Ankaboot 29:1-3]
Also, His Saying:
And of mankind, there are some (i.e. hypocrites) who say: ‘We believe in Allâh and the Last Day’ while in fact they believe not.
They (think to) deceive Allâh and those who believe, while they only deceive themselves, and perceive (it) not!
In their hearts is a disease (of doubt and hypocrisy) and Allâh has increased their disease. A painful torment is theirs because they used to tell lies. [al-Baqarah 2:8-10 
And from the Sunnah, that which is confirmed in as-Saheehain (i.e. al-Bukhaaree and Muslim), on the authority of Mu’aadh ibn Jabal, from the Prophet:
 There is none who testifies truthfully from his heart that there is no deity (god) worthy of worship except Allah and Muhammad  is His servant and His Messenger, except that Allah will make Haraam for him (i.e. save him from) the Hell-Fire... [al-Bukhaaree.  (Al-Albaanee said that this narration is not in Muslim. See: Mishkaat, 1/15, no. 25)]

6)       Al-Ikhlaas  Purity and Sincerity-worshipping Allah exclusively- [which negates shirk]

The evidence (for the condition of) al-Ikhlaas is His Saying:
 Surely, the pure religion  (i.e. the worship and obedience) is for Allah alone. [az-Zumar 39:3]
Also, His Saying:
And they were commanded not, but that they should worship Allâh, and worship none but Him Alone (abstaining from ascribing partners to Him)… [al-Bayyinah 98:5]
And from the Sunnah is the confirmed Hadeeth in the Saheeh (i.e. al-Bukhaaree), on the authority of Abu Hurairah, from the Prophet [that he said]:
The most fortunate of people who will receive my Shafaa’ah (intercession), will be the one who said: ‘La ilaaha ill Allah – sincerely from his heart or his soul. [al-Bukhaaree]
Also, in the Saheeh (i.e. al-Bukhaaree), on the authority of Utbaan ibn Maalik, from the Prophet, that he said:  Allah has forbidden the Fire upon one who says Laa ilaaha ill Allah, seeking by this the Face of Allah (i.e. saying this sincerely for Allah Alone). [al-Bukhaaree]
Also, that which is reported by an-Nasaa’ee, in ‘Amal al-Yawm wa-l-Lailah, from the Hadeeth of two men from among the companions, that the Prophet said: Whoever said: Laa ilaaha ill Allah, Wahda-hu, Laa Shareeka la-hu, la-hu-l-Mulk wa la-hu-l-Hamd, wa Huwa ‘ala kulli shay’in Qadeer – the heart being sincere, the tongue being truthful – Allah will make an opening in the sky due to it, such that He will look at the one who has said it from the people of the earth; and  it is the right of a servant whom Allah looks at that he be given what he asks for.   [This hadeeth has two weak narrators in its Isnaad (chain): Muhammad ibn Abdullah ibn Maimoon and Ya’qoob ibn ‘Aasim ibn ‘Urwah ibn Mas’ood]

7)       Mahabba  - Love  (for His kalimah and that which it entails, love for its people-those who act upon it, adhering to its conditions- and hating what violates it.)

The evidence (for the condition of) al-Mahabbah is His Saying:

And of mankind are some who take [for worship] others besides Allah as Andaal (rivals). They love them as they love Allah.  But those who believe love Allah more (than anything else). [al Baqarah 2:65]
Also, His Saying:
O you who believe! Whoever from among you turns back from his religion (Islâm), Allâh will bring a people whom He will love and they will love Him; humble towards the believers, stern towards the disbelievers, fighting in the Way of Allâh, and never afraid of the blame of the blamers…[al-Maa’idah 5:54]

<< Indeed there has been an excellent example for you in Ibraheem and those with him, when they said to their people: ‘Verily, we are free from you and whatever you worship besides Allaah. We have rejected you and there has begun between us and you hostility and hatred forever, until you believe in Allaah Alone’>> [Mumtahana: 4]

You will not find any people who believe in Allaah and the Last Day befriending those who oppose Allaah and His Messenger even though they were their fathers, their sons, their brothers or their kindred (people). For such
He has written Faith in their hearts >> [Mujadilah:22]

Say: If your fathers, your sons, your brothers, your wives, your kindred, the wealth that you have gained, the commerce in which you fear a decline and the dwellings in which you delight ... are dearer to you than Allaah and His Messenger and striving hard and fighting in His Cause, then wait until Allaah brings about His Decision (torment). And Allaah guides not the people who are the rebellious, disobedient to Allaah. >> [Tawbah: 23-24]

And from the Sunnah, that which is confirmed in the Saheeh (i.e. Muslim) on the authority of Anas, that he said, that the Messenger of Allah said:
Whoever possesses the following three characteristics will taste the sweetness of faith: (1) That he loves Allah  and His Messenger more than anything else; (2)  that he loves a person, and he only loves him for the sake of Allah; (3) and that he hates to return to disbelief after being saved from it just as he would hate to be thrown into the Fire. [Muslim]
Bukhari -Rahimahullaah- said: Muhammad bin Sinaan narrated to us that Faleeh said that Hilaal bin ‘Alee narrated to us on the authority of ‘Atta bin Yassar on the authority of Abu Huraira –RadhiAllaahu anhu- that the Messenger of Allaah – sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam - said:
 ‘Everyone from my Ummah will enter Paradise, except the one who refuses to enter.’
They asked: ‘O Messenger of Allaah, who would refuse?’
He said: ‘Whoever obeys me enters Paradise and whoever disobeys me has
refused to enter.’



(Al-ilmu, wal-yaqeenu, wal-qaboolu, wa-inqiyaadu, tadri maa aqoolu
wa-sidqu, wal-ikhlaasu, wal-muhabbah
wa-tafaqa Allaahu lima ahabbah)

Knowledge and certainty and acceptance along with submission, and be aware of what I am saying
And truthfulness along with sincerity and love,
Allaah grant you tawfeeq to what He loves

-Poetry by al haafidh al Hakamee from his book Ma’ribul Qubool



Source: A collaboration of Ma’aarij al-Qabool by Hafidh al Hakamee (translated by Abbas abu Yahya) &  Notes from ‘Evidences of  Laa ilaaha Illallaah’ –Muhammad ibn Abdul Wahhaab

Sunday, December 26, 2010

In the Heart of Green Birds



[Surah al-Imraan]

Think not of those who are killed in the way of Allah as dead. Nay, they are alive, with their Lord, and they have provision (169)

They rejoice in what Allah has bestowed upon them of His bounty and rejoice for the sake of those who have not yet joined them, but are left behind (not yet martyred) that on them no fear shall come, nor shall they grieve. (170)

They rejoice in a grace and a bounty from Allah, and that Allah will not waste the reward of the believers. (171)


It has been narrated on the authority of Masruq Who said: We asked 'Abdullah about the Qur'anic verse: "Think not of those who are slain in Allah's way as dead. Nay, they are alive, finding their sustenance in the presence of their Lord..." (iii. 169).
He said: We asked the meaning of the verse (from the Holy Prophet) who said: The souls, of the martyrs live in the bodies of green birds who have their nests in chandeliers hung from the throne of the Almighty. They eat the fruits of Paradise from wherever they like and then nestle in these chandeliers. Once their Lord cast a glance at them and said: Do ye want anything? They said: What more shall we desire? We eat the fruit of Paradise from wherever we like. Their Lord asked them the same question thrice. When they saw that they will continue to be asked and not left (without answering the question), they said: O Lord, we wish that Thou mayest return our souls to our bodies so that we may be slain in Thy way once again. When He (Allah) saw that they had no need, they were left (to their joy in heaven).

Bukhari. Book 20. On Government. Hadith 4651.
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The Prayer of Ibraheem Alayhi salaam- Surah As-Shu'ara

One of my absolute favourite passages from the Qur'aan. Soo beautiful subhanAllah .. Tafseer of this surah can be found  here.



Research experiment with Dr. Saleh as-Saleh

Based on hadeeth:

"If a housefly falls in the drink of anyone of you, he should dip it (in the drink), for the one of its wings has a disease and the other has the cure of the disease." [Bukhari, vol. 4: 537].



Al-Mutafifeen


Taken from Sheikh Uthaymeen'ss tafsir of sura Al Mutaffiffun (chapter 83)
 
Allah says what can be translated as:
1 Woe to Al Mutaffififun (those who give less in measure and weight)
 
2 Those who when they have to receive by measure from men demand full measure
 
3 And when they have to give by measure or weight to men give less than due
 
4 Do they not think that they will be resurrected (for reckoning)
 
5 On a great day
 
6 The day when (all) mankind will stand before the Lord of the Alamin (all that exits)
 
Sheikh Uthamin said concerning the explanation of Chapter Al-Mutaffinfin
  
(Woe) The word woe is repeated in the Quran many times and according to what is most correct it is a statement of threat by which Allah threatens those whom oppose His command or indulge in what He has prohibited them from.
And the prohibition is mentioned in the sentence following the threat.
 
Therefore in this case Allah the Exalted says woe be to Al Mutaffififun
So who are these Al Mutaffififun
These Al Mutaffififun are explained in the next verse
He said (Those who when they have to receive by measure from men demand full measure) (And when they have to give by measure or weight to men they give less than what is due)
 
(Those who when they have to receive by measure from men demand full measure)
 
Meaning when they buy from the people that which is weighed they demand from the people their rights in full without any deficiency
 
(And when they have to give by measure or weight to men they give less than what is due)
 
But if they are weighing or they are the ones selling the weighed meat or selling something which is measured they give a weight that is deficient
 
(they give less than what is due)
 
Therefore they demand their rights in full and they are deficient in giving others their rights
 
So they combined two affairs they combine greed and stinginess
 
Greed in demanding his rights in full without any leniency or forgiveness and stinginess because he does not give the full weight that is incumbent upon him
 
This example that Allah the Exalted mentions concerning the weigh and measure is just an example therefore it also applies to everything which is similar to this. Therefore everyone who demands their rights in full when they are due to receive rights but they don t give full rights when the rights are due from them then they are included in these noble verses.
 
An example of this is the husband who wants from his wife that she gives him all of his rights in full and he is not lenient in any of his rights. But when it is time to give his wife her rights then he is lackadaisical and he does not give her that which is due her.
 
And there are so many complaints from the women about this type of husband. And with Allah refuge is sought.
 
To the extent that many of the husbands want from their wives that they give them all of their rights but they don’t give their wives all of their rights and possibility the husbands will fall short in giving their wives most of the basic rights such as spending on them and living with them in kindness and other than that.
 
Verily oppressing another person is more severe than a person oppressing himself concerning the rights of Allah because the person oppressing himself concerning the rights of Allah is beneath the will of Allah if it is a sin other that shirk. If Allah wants to He will forgive the person and if He wants to He will punish the person.
 
But in regards to the rights of the people there has to be compensation given. And for this reason the Prophet peace and blessing are upon him said (to his companions) who do you consider to be the bankrupt person. They said the one from us who does not have any currency or any possessions.
 
He (the Prophet peace and blessings are upon him) said Verily the bankrupt person from my nation is the one who will come on the Day of Judgment with good deeds the size of a mountain (meaning a lot of good deeds). So he will come with these good deeds but he has oppressed this person and he abused this person and he hit this person and he took the wealth from this person. Therefore this person he oppressed will take from his good deeds and that person will take from his good deeds and this person will take from his good deeds and if his good deeds run out before he repays that which he owes then he will be given the sins of those he wronged and their sins will be flung on top of him and then he will be flung into the fire.
 
So my advice to those who are lackadaisical or negligent concerning the rights of there spouses is that they fear Allah the Mighty and Majestic because the Prophet peace and blessings are upon him advised with this during the biggest gathering that the Islamic world witnessed during the lifetime of the Messenger of Allah peace and blessings are upon him on the day of Arafat during the farewell pilgrimage.
 
He said fear Allah concerning the women because verily you took them as a trust from Allah and you have been permitted to have intimate relationships with them by the word of Allah.
 
Also you will find that some of the parents desire for their children to give them all of their rights in a perfect manner. So they want for their children to honor them and give them their rights and to give them money and to give physical help and everything type of honor possible but he is neglectful concerning his children and he does not give his children their rights. We say that this person is Al Mutaf (those who give less in measure and weight)
 
That father who wants for his children to honor him to the maximum all the while he is neglectful concerning their rights we say to him you are Al Mutaf (those who give less in measure and weight).
 
We say to him remember the statement of Allah the Exalted (what can be translated as)
 
1 Woe to Al Mutaffififun (those who give less in measure and weight)
 
2 Those who when they have to receive by measure from men demand full measure
 
3 And when they have to give by measure or weight to men give less than due
   
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Abu Imad Rasheed Ibn Gant